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Books
All Kinds of Families by Norma Simon
Andrew's Angry Words by Dorothea Lachner
** At Daddy's on Saturday's by Linda Walvoord Girard
The Bear Who Lost His Sleep by Jessica Lamb-Shapiro
Big Moon Tortilla by Joy Cowley
** Black, White, Just Right by Marguerite W. Davol
** Bottles Break by Nancy Maria Grande Tabor
** A Child's Grief Journey by Amy Jay Barry
** Child Support: Through Small Group Counseling by Lois Landy
** An Elephant in the Living Room by Jill M. Hastings, M.S. and Marion H. Typpo, Ph. D.
** Divorce and Remarriage Activity Book My Story and Early Separation and Divorce Activity Book Let's Talk by Jim and Joan Boulden
** Don't Despair on Thursdays! by Adolph Moser Ed. D
** Don't Feed The Monster on Tuesdays! by Adolph Moser Ed. D
** Don't Pop Your Cork on Mondays! by Adolph Moser Ed. D.
** Don't Rant & Rave on Wednesdays by Adolph Moser Ed. D
** Divorce and Remarriage Activity Book My Story by Jim & Joan Boulden
** Early Separation and Divorce Activity Book Let's Talk by Jim & Joan Boulden
Everything I Do You Blame on Me! A Book to Help Control Their Anger by Allyson Abron, M.S.W., C.S.W.
** Face Your Feelings! book and cards by Lawrence E. Shapiro, Ph. D.
Friendship Fables by Shirley Redcay
Froggy & Friends I by Kathie Guild
Froggy & Friends II by Kathie Guild
Grandpa Toad’s Secrets by Keiko Kasza
The Hate List by Arden Martenz
** How I Weathered the Storm of Divorce by LaVon Dormeyer
The Hurt by Teddi Doleski
** I'm Afraid To Go Home by Patti Ransom & Kathleen Towne
** I Wish My Daddy Didn’t Drink So Much by Judith Vigna
** Keep Your Cool Game by Angela Johnson
Kelly Bear Drug Awareness by Leah Davies
My Big Sister Takes Drugs by Judith Vigna
My Body is Mine, My Feelings Are Mine A Storybook About Body Safety for Young Children with an Adult Guide Book by Susan Hoke, LCSW, ACSW
** My Dad Loves Me, My Dad Has A Disease by Claudia Black
** My Family is Living with Cancer by Sandra Hazouri & Miriam McLaughlin
Not Better . . . Not Worse . . . Just Different by Sharon Scott
Perfect Pigs by Marc Brown and Stephen Krensky
The Principal’s New Clothes by Stephanie Calmenson
** Robert Lives with his Grandparents by Martha Whitmore Hickman
S.A.I.L. by Rosemarie S. Hughes, Ph.D. and Pamela C. Kloeppet, Ed. D.
** Shelley the Hyperactive Turtle by Deborah H. Moss
Sometimes I Feel Like I Don't Have Any Friends by Tracy Zimmerman and Lawrence E. Shapiro, Ph. D.
Sometimes I Like to Fight, But I Don't Do It Much Anymore by Lawrence E. Shapiro, Ph. D.
True or False? Tests Stink! by Trevor Romain & Elizabeth Verdick
Special Situations
** 12 Stepping Stones For Young Children Of Alcoholics & Other Addictive-Drug Users by Suzanne Diou & Lois Caldwell
** We Adopted You, Benjamin Koo by Linda Walvoord Girard
** When A Family Is In Trouble Children Can Cope With Grief From Drug And Alcohol Addiction by Marge Heegaard
** When Mom and Dad Separate Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief from Divorce by Marge Heegaard
** When A Parent Marries Again Children Can Learn to Cope With Family Change by Marge Heegaard
** When Someone Has a Very Serious Illness Children Can Learn To Cope With Loss and Change by Marge Heegaard
** When Someone VERY Special DIES Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief by Marge Heegaard
** When Something Terrible Happens Children Can Learn To Cope With Grief by Marge Heegaard
Who Is a Stranger and What Should I Do? by Linda Walvoord Girard
Why Should I? It’s Not My Birthday! by Allyson Aborn, M.S.W., C.S.W.

Kits
** Creative Coaching A Support Group for Children with ADHD by Nancy McDougall & Janet Roper
Kelso by Barbara O'Neill, Ph. D. & Diane Glass
Kids with Character
Learning to Play, Playing to Learn Games and Activities to Teach Sharing, Caring, and Compromise by Charlie Steffens & Spencer Gorin
Study Skills II by JoAnn Cooper & Arden Martenz

Games
** The Anger Solution Game
** The Angry Monster Machine
Bag Bingo: K-3 Study Skills by JoAnn Cooper
** Building Confidence: A Self-Esteem Game by Dorothy Goldwasser, B.S., M.S.
** Choose! game by Helen R. Frank, Samuel T. Poston, and Paul W. Skogstrom
** Circle of Friends Game
** The Classroom Behavior Game
** The Coping Skills Game and Workbook by Lisa M. Schab, LCSW
** Face Your Feelings! book and cards by Lawrence E. Shapiro, Ph. D.
** Getting Along: Conflict Resolution Game by Dorothy Goldwasser, B.S., M.S.
Less Stress ball
LifeStories
** Look Before You Leap!
** My 2 Homes
Pickle Jar Bingo Game by Patricia Kienzle
Positive Attitude ball
Responsibility Bingo by Maryann Hudgins
** The Secret Door by Jim Deacove
** The Self Control Patrol Game and Workbook by Terry Trower
** Sleeping Grump
** Stop, Relax, and Think
** Teamwork
Try Test Bingo by Paula Jackson
** You & Me: A Game of Social Skills

Positive Attitude Ball
"full of affirmative statements such as 'Tell what you like about yourself' and 'Give someone a compliment.

The Less Stress Ball
"tells kids to 'Take 5 deep breaths' and 'Name someone who handles stress well,' it helps turn tension into fun-filled play."

My 2 Homes
"Designed for children who are having difficulty adjusting to their parents' divorce, this unique game lets children deal with problems on their own terms - through play."

You & Me: A Game of Social Skills
"teaches children important day-to-day social skills, including: helping others, sharing, being polite, understanding another's point of view, being a friend, and so on. As players move through the colorful board, they draw pictures, answer questions or act out charades about common social situations. When they cooperate, they are rewarded with special 'social events.'"

The Anger Solution Game
"helps children learn to control their behavioral responses to anger. As players make their way around the board, they are faced with a series of decisions and learn to choose the success route over the victim cycle."

All Kinds of Families
“A child defines family on the basis of personal experience. Little children idealize the adults in their family and learn values by imitating attitudes and behavior they see around them. This book stresses the supportive function of the family and the child’s joyous place in the center of this, his world.”

Andrew's Angry Words
"In this cautionary tale . . . Andrew's bad mood has a ripple effect on the people around him when his swear words sour his sister first, then a poet, then a princess, and so on. . . ."

The Angry Monster Machine
"This ingenious game was designed to have a high play value for children who have problems with anger control. Each player uses a truck to pick up Play Doh monsters and cart the monsters back to the Transforming Machine, where he must say something that makes him angry. He then selects adaptive ways to transform the Play Doh monster too! This game is so much fun it makes kids want to work on this difficult problem."

At Daddy's on Saturday's
"Bringing new insight to the joys and trials of different kinds of family units, joint custody/divorce issues is detailed in this heartwarming story, which teaches children that even though their family might be different in one way, it really isn't so different form other families in many other ways."

Bag Bingo: K-3 Study Skills
"Make study skills fun using bingo cards and related lessons to help young students learn, understand, and apply good study habits."

The Bear Who Lost His Sleep
"Benjamin was a bear who worried too much. In fact, he worried so much that he couldn't even fall asleep when it was time to hibernate for the winter. This engaging story book shows children how reasoning things out can help them reduce their anxiety and their need to be perfect."

Big Moon Tortilla
“Marta Enos has been working hard on her homework and is hungry for a taste of Grandmother’s big moon tortillas, ‘the best in the world.’ But as she rushes out to the cookhouse, disasters happen. Her homework blows out the window and is ruined by dogs. She drops her glasses and breaks them. Grandmother comforts her broken-hearted granddaughter with the wisdom of an old healing song: ‘When we have a problem, we must choose what we shall be.’ Marta chooses to fly high and laugh at her problems, like the eagle.”

Black, White, Just Right
"Bringing new insight to the joys and trials of different kinds of family units, interracial marriage is detailed in this heartwarming story, which teaches children that even though their family might be different in one way, it really isn't so different form other families in many other ways."

Bottles Break
“Sometimes helping a parent who drinks too much means learning to take better care of yourself.”

The Boy Who Was Swallowed By The Drug Monster
“gets this point across to children. The story, illustrations, and narration are by Sue Petit. It is based on the effects drugs had on her 8 year old son, Vince and her family. This 13 minute video comes to a powerful conclusion when Vince (now an adult) speaks directly to you from jail and tells how his childhood was taken away from him.”

Building Confidence: A Self-Esteem Game
"An absorbing board game that lays the foundation for self-esteem by challenging students to shed their negative thoughts and feelings about themselves and help their fellow players do the same."

A Child's Grief Journey
"takes the reader into the heart of a boy who has lost his mother to death. Jared's feelings vividly describe his emptiness, confusion, anger, and deep sadness in a way that children will relate to and adults will understand."

Child Support: Through Small Group Counseling
". . . features more than 100 complete sessions covering the hottest topics in counseling today, including anger and aggression, death, decision making, divorce, peer relationships, responsibility, self-concept, and shyness."

Choose! game
"a fun-filled, entertaining tool which stimulates youngster's social, intellectual, personal, and moral growth. It helps children make good decisions, communicate effectively, improve coping skills and mobilize their inner resources."

Circle of Friends Game
"Kids learn friendship-building skills such as listening, patience and paying attention, and how to deal with various friendship issues, such as teasing, bullies, jealousy, anger, and more. This game features a "small town" board where the friends live and socialize. The players are asked questions, and, with the right answer, acquire new friends and Pop-it beads. When enough beads are collected to form a 'circle of friends' around all the players, everyone wins!"

The Classroom Behavior Game
"teaches 12 positive behaviors including Raising Your Hand, Taking Turns, Ignoring Inappropriate Behavior of Others, Having a Positive Attitude, and Listening."

The Coping Skills Game and Workbook
"Kids grow up in an adult world. Adults have learned to cope; kids haven't." Lessons are "how to deal with feelings, adjust attitude, discover choices, accept imperfection, and more." The workbook has "activities and scenarios that challenge children to learn nine coping skills, including: becoming adept at labeling feelings, deciding what they need, listing things they can and can't change, and suggesting ways to make things better."

Creative Coaching
"This program is a practical resource for conducting educational groups for children. Short-term, educational, curriculum-based groups provide a supportive and nurturing environment within which children can learn and practice specific life skills. And, although applicable for almost all children, Creative Coaching can be specifically referenced when working with children who have Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. In addition to providing specific suggestions for learning objectives and activities, this program includes detailed instructions for implementing groups and resource materials which provide training for teachers and parents who wish to enhance student skills."

Divorce and Remarriage Activity Book My Story and Early Separation and Divorce Activity Book Let's Talk
"The feelings of confusion, anger, sadness, and responsibility often experienced by children whose parents are separated or divorced are explored in reassuring activities and easy-to-read text. Coloring opportunities are interwoven with springboards for discussion in the two books that help young people come to terms with - and realize they are not to blame for - their parent's divorce. Let's Talk focuses on what happens when parents argue and can no longer live together, while My Story looks at a parent's dating and remarriage and guides young children in coping with a blended family."

Don't Despair on Thursdays!
"The practical, easy-to-follow methods presented help children to understand that grieving is a normal response to loss."

Don't Feed The Monster on Tuesdays!
"Presents techniques for building and maintaining positive attitudes and strengthening self-esteem in a way that is easy for students to understand."

Don't Pop Your Cork on Mondays!
"explores the causes and effects of stress and offers practical approaches and techniques for dealing with the stress factors that effect everyday lives."

Don't Rant & Rave on Wednesdays
"explains the causes of anger and offers methods that can help children reduce the amount of anger they feel."

An Elephant in the Living Room
“Living in a family where drinking is a problem is a lot like living with an ELEPHANT in the living room. This book is a way to begin talking about things that are hard to talk about.”

Everything I Do You Blame on Me! A Book to Help Control Their Anger
“Children follow the progress of a boy named Eddie and learn some of the most effective techniques available to help children control and transform their anger.”

** Face Your Feelings! book and cards
"Both the book and card deck show 52 pictures of children, teens, adults, and seniors expression the 12 basic feelings." The book has examples of the feelings. The cards can be used to play ten different games.

My Family is Living with Cancer
"This story tells of a mother stricken with cancer and how the child's initial fear and confusion turns to understanding and acceptance. Includes suggestions for answering children's questions, ways to prepare them for hospital visits, and how to make the homecoming go smoothly."

Friendship Fables
"addresses four important social issues in one book. Each section includes a clever story, questions for discussion, a related activity or game, and instructions to make clever hand puppets. The social issues addressed are: Teasing, Angry feelings blocking friendships, Strategies for making friends, and Making friends by overcoming differences."

Froggy & Friends I
"Froggy teaches social skills such as helping students learn to make and keep friends, use good manners, develop self-esteem, listen carefully, deal with peer pressure, follow safety rules, return things that are found, and learn good lunchroom behavior."

Froggy & Friends II
"Froggy teaches good behavior. Froggy's adventures include: tattling, bullying, doing your best, name calling, prejudice, and bragging."

Getting Along: Conflict Resolution Game
"A board game in which students have fun while effortlessly absorbing the skills of conflict resolution. As players roll the die and move along the board's roadway of colorful squares, they learn and practice problem-solving skills."

Grandpa Toad’s Secrets
“Grandpa Toad seems to know all the secrets for outwitting hungry enemies. But when an enormous monster proves to be too scary even for Grandpa, can Little Toad save the day?”

The Hate List
"is a story about a young girl who learns that by changing her reactions to unpleasant situations, she can control her anger and have more friends. Jessie has a 'Hate List' that includes just about everybody in her family and all her classmates. During her summer vacation, she is invited to visit her grandmother. When she arrives, she learns that Grandmother had a special reason for the invitation. She needs Jessie's help. Jessie's cousin Mark has also been invited to stay at Grandmother's. He doesn't have any friends and Grandmother is worried about him. She wants Jessie to work with her to help Mark so that he knows what he is doing to make the kids dislike him. As Jessie observes Mark, she learns how she herself can change. She goes home from Grandmother's with a new outlook on life."

How I Weathered the Storm of Divorce
"is a clever way to help children cope with the reality of a divorce. It provides the opportunity to: interact with an adult, create a personal story, confront emotional issues, and understand that negative thoughts, feelings, and actions can be controlled."

The Hurt
“When his best friend Gabriel calls him a name, Justin reacts by going home to his room and nursing his Hurt. As he adds even more hurts to it, the Hurt grows bigger and bigger. Finally, through sharing his feelings and experiencing reconciliation, Justin is able to let the Hurt go and enjoy life with his family and friends.”

I Can Be Responsible
"Using true-to-life scenarios, animated characters, and lively songs, program challenges children to decide on responsible courses of action. Gives children a fun-filled forum in which to consider questions of personal responsibility; taking care of themselves; helping out at home, keeping up in school; being a responsible friend. Helps children begin to set a standard of responsible behavior for themselves."

I'm Afraid To Go Home "is a program to help students learn ways to cope with their situations of living in violent homes or neighborhoods. Some of the topics include: The evaluation of homes and neighborhoods, ways to gain support, dealing with violence in homes and neighborhoods, ways to express anger, understanding responsibility, and dealing with feelings."

I Wish My Daddy Didn’t Drink So Much
“When Lisa gets the sled Daddy made her for Christmas, she hopes he’ll keep his promise to take her sledding. But when the time comes, Daddy’s drinking - again. Though it’s not hard for Lisa to understand, Mommy explains that Daddy’s sick, and that ‘the true, kind Daddy is the one who loves you...’ With the help of Mommy and a wise neighbor, Lisa learns more about being hopeful, and about making not only Christmas but every day good for herself.”

Keep Your Cool Game
"A game that teaches students that good attitudes help them to have better days! Begin by reading a clever story about Self-Control Seth and Bad-Attitude Brittany. Then, have the students move around the colorful game board drawing cards and answering questions that reinforce the concept that people with a good attitude move forward during the day, but people with a bad attitude do not."

Kelly Bear Drug Awareness "presents accurate information and affirms a clear standard of "no drug use." It serves to help children develop self-confidence, learn decision-making skills, identify trusted adults, and ascertain false media messages. These materials foster healthy living habits, promote academic success, and empower children to accept responsibility for their feelings, behaviors, and bodies."

Kelso
"empowers children to use the skills of conflict management in school, in the community, and at home."

Kid a Littles The Value of Being Conscientious
“In this program Chief Clipper’s cousin, Algenon takes over running the newspaper when the chief takes a vacation. When Muffy and Scoop worry that the paper won’t get out on time, they pull together and save the day. Featured songs: ‘Don’t Sweat It’ and ‘My Big Chance.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of Completing a Task
“In this program Muffy and Scoop’s job assignments begin to get them down, Chief Clipper perks up their energy by showing them the benefits of finishing what you start. Featured song: ‘Stick-to-it-tivity.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of Enthusiasm
“In this program Scoop is so excited about interviewing Guest Star George Engel, that he is ready to burst. Chief Clipper reminds him how to use his enthusiasm to make the best of every situation. Featured songs: ‘Enthused About The News’ and ‘The Best Thing Is To Sing.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of A Good Attitude
“Scoop is in a great mood! He is going to meet radio star Rick Dees. After singing all day long in anticipation Scoop loses his voice. Rick arrives and teaches Scoop a good attitude can make the best of any situation. Featured song: ‘I’ve Got So Much Music In Me.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of a Good Education
“In this program Mr. Information magically emerges from deep inside a reference book and shows Muffy and Scoop why it is important to ‘Get A Good Education.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of Good Manners “In this program Muffy decides to do something sneaky. She listens in on Scoop’s interview with Guest Star Dick Gautier. Dick politely sets a proper example when Muffy is discovered. Featured song: ‘I Always Mind My Manners and I Watch My P’s and Q’s.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of A Good Sense of Humor
“In this program Scoop is feeling silly as he goes to see a concert performed by John Bowser. He and Giggleberry sing ‘It’s Fun To Have Fun.’ Later when Bowzer arrives he keeps the fun going by singing, ‘Catch A Laugh.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of A Helping Hand
“In this program Scoop has far too much to do. Tuck decides to follow Mr. Information’s suggestion and lend Scoop a helping hand. Tuck, Scoop and Giggleberry all learn how important helping each other really is! Featured: ‘That’s What Friends Are For.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of Planning Your Time
“In this program Muffy and Giggleberry get discouraged because they are so disorganized. Scoop helps to teach them that the ‘secret’ is to learn to plan your time carefully.”

Kid a Littles The Value of Positive Thinking
“In this program Scoop is feeling tired and down in the dumps. When Chief Clipper sings ‘Getting Your Spirits Up, When You’re Down’ Scoop begins to learn to look at the bright side of things and not focus on the bad. Featured song: ‘What Goes On Between Your Ears.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of Responsibility
“In this program guest star Fred Willard works hard to help Muffy, Scoop, Giggleberry, Nip and Tuck prepare for Chief Clipper’s Birthday party. The confusion of who has which task is straightened out in time for ‘The Party Tonight.’”

Kid a Littles The Value of Special Friends
“In this program Scoop gets a special present from a secret friend and everyone tries to guess who sent it, until a messenger arrives with a singing telegraph which unravels the mystery.”

Kid a Littles The Value of Training and Practice
“In this program Muffy meets former Miss America, Debra Sue Maffett. Debra helps Muffy understand that by practicing every day Muffy can win the contest. Featured song: ‘You’ve Got To Believe It.’”

Kids with Character
The topics include: "courage, fairness, forgiveness, honesty, honor, kindness, love, patience, perseverance, respect, responsibility, and self-discipline."

LifeStories
"Get to know your family, your friends and yourself better with this delightful game that encourages everyone to talk about their life's experiences, thoughts, hopes, and dreams. The rules are simple, the questions are easy. A great way to reinforce family ties, pass on family history and enrich friendships."

Look Before You Leap! game
"Children learn to control their responses as well as their behavior in everyday situations by using forethought to guide the game play. They also learn to think ahead as they use real-life problem-solving and critical-thinking skills. The specially designed board keeps changing - challenging children to 'look before they leap!'"

My Big Sister Takes Drugs
“It’s bad enough when Paul’s big sister, Tina, turns mean and hangs out with mean kids. But when the family discovers Tina’s drug abuse problem, things turn much worse. Paul’s new friend doesn’t want to play with him, and Paul can’t go to soccer camp because Tina’s hospital program costs so much. Worst of all, Paul’s afraid that his sister may not recover. But with work and love, it looks as if all kinds of things in Paul’s life will soon be getting better.”

My Body is Mine, My Feelings Are Mine A Storybook About Body Safety for Young Children with an Adult Guide Book "Sexual victimization of minors is preventable. The first half of this book is intended to be read to young children, and explains how to identify inappropriate touching and what to do. The second section clearly and succinctly teaches adults how to educate children about body safety."

My Dad Loves Me, My Dad Has A Disease
“Working through the loneliness, fear, and frustration by expressing feelings is what this book is all about. This workbook gives children the opportunity to share their thoughts and feelings, and to better understand addiction.”

Not Better . . . Not Worse . . . Just Different "Students will learn specific steps for respecting and accepting one another regardless of learning, physical, race, or gender differences."

Perfect Pigs
This cartoon book is a fun book for children to learn about manners.

Pickle Jar Bingo Game
"Young students learn to understand feelings and increase their feeling word vocabulary with this clever game."

The Principal’s New Clothes
“Mr. Bundy, the principal of P. S. 88, is the sharpest dresser in school. In fact, he’s the sharpest dresser in the whole town! But when two tricksters come to town and design a suit of magic cloth for Mr. Bundy, everyone is in for a big surprise!”

Responsibility Bingo
"Responsibility for self, home, friends, school, and the world. These are topics addressed in this bingo game. Students learn the responsibility associated with the different aspects of their lives as they play a lively and fun game of bingo."

Robert Lives with his Grandparents
"Bringing new insight to the joys and trials of different kinds of family units, living with grandparents is detailed in this heartwarming story, which teaches children that even though their family might be different in one way, it really isn't so different form other families in many other ways."

S.A.I.L.
Several activities to help with self-esteem, decision making, and peer relationships.

The Secret Door
"Children to try to figure out what is behind the Secret Door, but they won't succeed unless they work cooperatively."

The Self-Control Patrol Game and Workbook
"teaches children how to cope with a variety of social problems that typically evoke anger and loss of control." It is "designed to help children develop better listening skills, read social cues, understand the consequences of their behavior, learn to express themselves appropriately (with the 'Power Talk Formula') deal with name-calling and teasing, and use humor in a positive way to deal with conflicts."

Set Your Own Goals
"What can children accomplish once they learn to set their own goals? Almost anything! In this upbeat video, kids learn that setting a goal is important. They find out that when they begin with small steps, keep trying, and ask for help if needed, they can achieve their goals. Susan learns that some goals take time - like making new friends at school. When Amy sets a goal of raising $15 to join "Save the Whales", her first plan fails, but her whole class joins in and helps raise money. Both reach their goals in different ways."

Shelley The Hyperactive Turtle
"No matter how hard he tried, Shelley the Turtle couldn't get along with others. Then a doctor helped him understand that he was not 'bad' for being so active, just different. This beautifully illustrated storybook for young children will help them understand their problem and how medication can help."

Sleeping Grump
"In this popular board game, players must climb the stalk and recover treasures from the Grump without waking him. To win, players work together and help change the Grump with their kindness!"

Something Wrong at Home: The Alcoholic Family
"promotes a general understanding of the experience of children from alcoholic families, and to assist those children who have an alcoholic parent to understand that they are not alone, they are not to blame, and that they need to have other caring adults they can turn to when they feel unsafe. The program models positive problem solving via discussion of feelings, getting support from friends, family, and counselors, and finding satisfaction in a healthy routine of school and activities."

Sometimes I Feel Like I Don't Have Any Friends
"Meet Mark, a fourth-grader who knows he's not well-liked. He begins to see his shortcomings and - with the help of his parents and teacher - learns to communicate, listen and cooperate. New friends quickly follow."

Sometimes I Like to Fight, But I Don't Do It Much Anymore
"Douglas is a boy who has always liked to fight. But as he gets older, his fighting gets him into more trouble, the other children begin to dislike him, and the principal of his school threatens to throw him out. Fortunately, a counselor, Ms. Stevenson, is there to help Douglas learn to control his fighting."

Sometimes I Drive My Mom Crazy, But I Know She's Crazy About Me A Self-Esteem Book for ADHD Children
"This true-to-life story of a young ADHD boy addresses the many difficult and frustrating issues kids like him confront every day; from sitting still in the classroom, to remaining calm, to feeling 'different' from other children."

Special Situations
"is a collection of 27 guidance lessons to be presented in classrooms or in small groups." "The topics include: Academic Improvement, Bullying, Career Awareness, Conflict-Management, Family Relationships, Feelings, Introducing the Counselor, Perfection, Personal Improvement, Personal Safety, Tattling, Teasing, and Understanding Others."

Stop, Relax, and Think
"In this ever-popular board game, active impulsive children learn motor control, relaxation skills, how to express their feelings, and how to problem-solve."

Study Skills II
"Six lessons featuring Barney Bear and his forest friends. Emphasizes listening, working quietly, questioning, and doing one's best."

Teamwork
"This game uses the exciting metaphor of a basketball game to teach children the important cooperative skills. Players "run" back and forth along the basketball court with their sneaker markers, expressing their opinions about various situations regarding cooperation, sharing, understand the point of view of others, and, of course, teamwork! If the player provides a good answer as determined by his teammates, he goes to the foul line of the enclosed miniature basketball game and shoots baskets to earn chips. The whole team is rewarded by doing a social activity together."

True or False? Tests Stink!
"This quick-reading book, filled with jokes and cartoons, will help the reader become a better test taker. Includes test-taking tips that really work, how to handle stress, and much more."

12 Stepping Stones For Young Children Of Alcoholics & Other Addictive-Drug Users “is a program for children of substance abusers. Based on the 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous, these sessions allow children to: examine their own feelings, better understand the behavior of the substance abuser, and excuse themselves from guilt.”

Try Test Bingo
Introduce the importance of test-taking skills to young students by playing a fun bingo game. Learning test-taking tips will help students be less anxious and more confident in testing situations."

We Adopted You, Benjamin Koo
“My parents started early telling me I was from Korea and was adopted. But that didn’t mean much to me until one day I noticed that I didn’t look like my mom and dad. I had lots of questions then, and I didn’t always like the answers. But through talking and explaining and struggling, I found out what makes a real family. And I know that’s exactly what we are.”

When A Family Is In Trouble Children Can Cope With Grief From Drug And Alcohol Addiction
“When a family member has an addiction to alcohol or other drugs the entire family is effected. This book gives parents, counselors and other professionals an organized approach to help children ages 6-12 understand and cope with the problems addicted families face. The art process invites children to release repressed concerns and difficult feelings in an appropriate way. Awareness and communication is the first step to making positive changes.”

When Mom and Dad Separate Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief from Divorce
"This book was designed to teach children some concepts about divorce and to recognize and express feelings of grief from family change, to encourage open communication and to help adults discover unhealthy misconceptions children may have."

When A Parent Marries Again Children Can Learn to Cope With Family Change
"Stepfamilies are born out of loss and grief. First families ending in death or divorce often leave children feeling abandoned and insecure in a world upside down. The remarriage of a parent may feel more like a loss than a gain to children after close single parent/child relationships. Merging two families with unrealistic expectations, divided loyalties, different values and histories bring rivalries, conflicts and confusion. This book was designed to help children express feelings and concerns about the changes in their lives to help family members understand each other better and build bonds based on mutual respect and trust."

When Someone Has a Very Serious Illness Children Can Learn To Cope With Loss and Change
" This book will help families communicate and evaluate a child's understanding and feelings about family change while teaching basic concepts of illness and healthy coping skills."

When Someone VERY Special DIES Children Can Learn to Cope with Grief
"This book was designed to teach basic concepts of death and help children understand and express the many feelings they have when someone special dies. Communication is increased and coping skills are developed as they illustrate their books with their personal story."

When Something Terrible Happens Children Can Learn To Cope With Grief
"Terrible things happen to children. Traumatic events in the lives of their families, their friends or in the world leave children feeling confused, insecure, and frightened. Some things happen in nature like floods and earthquakes. People, also cause violence and trauma. This book is designed to help children understand and cope with overwhelming feelings from loss and change. Creating art provides a method for expressing feelings children are unable to understand or express verbally. Drawing a fearful event puts the drawer in charge and presents an opportunity to overcome feelings of helplessness and fear."

Who is a Stranger and What Should I Do?
"Most kids know not to talk to strangers, but this book takes the idea further by explaining about 'kind' strangers, the stranger who is not a child's friend, strangers in public places, 'doorbell' strangers, and others. Includes 10 'what if?' situations and topics for discussion."

Why Should I? It’s Not My Birthday!
“Children can practice their own decisionmaking skills as they choose their own resolutions to the conflicts experienced by a boy having common difficulties with his family.”

Working It Out
The objective of this program is “to equip young children with the skills they need to resolve their day-to-day conflicts in a systematic, step-by-step manner. To accomplish this goal, the program uses lively video images and graphics, music, and characters with whom children can easily identify. Typical conflicts are illustrated and each conflict resolution sill is taught and demonstrated. Then students are given the chance to work with the skill on their own as the teacher stops the video for children to participate in activities that reinforce the concepts taught. One skill at a time, children acquire a basic understanding of-and practical experience with-the process of conflict resolution. The net result of this training: as real-life conflict arise, children will be better prepared to handle them in a ‘grown up’ fashion, without resorting to name-calling, shouting, or physical aggression.”

Learning to Play, Playing to Learn Games and Activities to Teach Sharing, Caring, and Compromise
“This book is all about helping kids learn more about living in the world through the dynamics of play. Divided into three parts, creative play, compassionate play, and soft aggression, this book provides a selection of games and activities that are fun and challenging. This book has over sixty unique and entertaining activities that will help to manage aggressive behaviors, foster cooperation, and nurture positive conduct.”